FUTILITY AND FRIENDSHIP

The start of a new week is always the crucial part (not only for me) especially if you have work or uni on a Monday morning. But hey we got to wake up and get going cos that money won’t come on a silver platter.

So over the weekend I had some “ME” time and have been having so many thoughts roaming my lil head. I won’t bore you with details of what was going on entirely but it’s mainly to do with friendship. I have come to a realization that as I grow older, my circle of friends has dramatically diminished. For instance in high school I had loads of people I called friends but now I have only stayed in touch with about less than 5 of the bunch of friends I thought I had. I questioned my friendship with a couple of friends.

Friendship is vital in every human beings life. As the saying goes no man is an island. But to be honest looking at things right now am glad I have the few friends that I can truly call friends and whom I know I can rely on. It is just annoying when all the effort is coming from one person. In the end I feel like am chasing after that person, like seriously that ain't happening. Anyway, I have shared enough of my thoughts now. Am sure am not the only person out the way who feels this way.

Only then(in my thoughts) did I realize that the futility of thinking about another person — and our intense desire to do so — is exactly what friendship is about. It shows our willingness to be devoted, committed and vulnerable for another person; simply because it is the best we can do, even if the best yields nothing. It’s like pushing a 10-ton stone: We can’t move it, but that’s not the point. However, for how long will u keeping pushing a 10-ton stone I mean for what purpose is it? There is no point.

One thing about me is that I can be rather outspoken at times and maybe too frank in certain circumstances but that’s me. That’s my personality, but some people take it the wrong way and feel offended by my frankness. I don’t really understand that. After thinking and praying about things that bothered me I feel ten times better.   

I was meant to go ice-skating in City Center but then again it was way too cold in Leeds to go ice-skating.  Never the less I had a pretty relaxing weekend and I was forced to stay indoors. I managed to go to church on Sunday. Below are a few pics of what I wore. I decided to wear white and leopard print with a hint of red lippy (MAC Ruby woo).
With Love, Tsepo 



 Would definitely rock this to an all white party I reckon. Even with the hint leopard print.

OUTFIT DETAILS

Blouse – PrimarkSkinny Jeans – Zara UK
Heels – USCBlazer – NEXT (sales only £7)Chocker- Ebay (£1.50)





Humble Beginnings

After great persuasion from my lovely sister and inspiration from my sweet friend  Joan  I decided to give it a shot. I am a big Fan of taking pics (I mean loads and loads of pics) and I look forward to sharing them with ya'll. I will start by giving a brief introduction about my self. Basically am an outspoken , cheerful young lady, 21 going on 22. I spend most of my free time on YouTube watching makeup tutorials for some reason but hey love it.  I am currently working part-time as a Care Assistant and anxiously waiting to go to uni this September to study Business Economics. Pretty much that's a lil bit about myself. 






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